GryphonMage Arrrgggh My friend is like, totally angsty all the time and she's always posting that no one cares about her and that really pisses me off because I totally do my best to be there for her, but she would rather feel sorry for herself about how no one loves her and no one understands her than to acknowledge the friends that care about her and frankly, I'm not sure how to handle it anymore. Suggestions? Plus, she's all, ooh I finally dumped the asshole who has been stringing me along for years and because he was a jerkwad, clearly no one will ever love me and ARGH. If you ask me she needs to get over herself because, y'all, please. But I'm not asking me, I'm asking you because telling your angsty friend to get over themself is apparently not good. Help? Sumiregawa Nenene Congrats on the bad boyfriend jerkwad. Sorry to hear about the angsty friend. Some people complain not because they want someone to really listen or that they want help. Some people complain mainly because they don't have anything else to do. People like that, you really can't help. They don't want an audience... they really don't want help... they just want to whine and bitch about things they can't control. Sumiregawa Nenene I mean maybe a good boot to the face... Yomiko Readman Sensei! Sumiregawa Nenene OK, maybe that's not the greatest idea. Just give them space... space and time. Whoa, that's kinda sci-fi. Maybe I should write that down. Anyway, yeah. Don't have out with them as often or listen to them and maybe they'll wise up. It's something they really have to get over if you've tried your best and there's nothing you can do.