Sekisetsu Another guy issue I'm bored, sou why not... I have a guy I've known for two years online but I feel like unlike our other motley crew, we're rather personal with each other... He's one of the best friends I have and I know he feels the same, and we've always been fond of each other. Especially with valentine's day coming up we've been offhandly sweet around each other. (I'm getting chocolate! Hoorah!) ^_^ Still this is an online relashionship... we plan to meet but at a later date -- and meanwhile someone I admired in the past seems suddenly interested in me... Now to choose between someone I care about who's far away and someone I used to who's close... There's more to it I suppose and there's really only sou much advice you can give to that, but why not! I'm curious to see what advice I get! -Rain-hime Ranma Saotome Well, uh... when you get into a situation where you find multiple people interested in you but you're not really exactly sure who you like, or if you like any of them at all... the best advice I guess I can give is to... uh... Ranma Saotome Fight them all in a grand battle and the victor who can match your skills is truly your destined mate! Ranma Saotome But I guess that might not go over to well with some of the people out there... so hrm. Well, here's a thought... try being honest to both of them. I know I'm not very good at that whole... communication thing... but heck, it might work for you. Tell them both the truth... that you're seeing someone online but haven't ever dated and now someone in real life has offered you the chance to date and you want to make sure your feelings are geniune or something... Ranma Saotome Just make sure you don't two-time them and date them both at the same time! That could get very... er... dangerous... So just let them know constantly what's going on and if they can't handle it, then I guess you should decide for yourself what's best. Solid Snake I dunno, kid. Sounds a little dirty to me. Whenever you have more than one force trying to gain the upperhand, it inevitably becomes a power struggle. It's not really fair for either guy to have to try and win your heart... love isn't a game and you should really decide what you want before going out there and getting involved. Solid Snake I'd say do some soul searching and figure out what you want in a relationship and then see which of the two candidates can better fill your needs. You need to take into account such things as past history and their feelings on the matter as well. Love is war, kid, and you have to have all your priorities straight, otherwise, someone's going to get really hurt. Ranma Saotome Or... that. 'cause you know, it's probably not smart to argue with someone with a g... Solid Snake A what? Ranma Saotome Gu.... great big winning personality! Yep yep! Sekisetsu Thanks for the friendly advice! Much appreciated~ You didn't have to worry though, I've never been one to lie or to do something as sinister as dating two guys at once. ^_^- We'll see how it works out!