Anonymous Caller how can i have a unique question, how do you turn away someone that is madely in love with you when you have no feelings for them in return? How can I through kindess and love turn them away with out destroying them? Dark Schneider Whoa.... And people keep intimating that I have ego problems. "Madly in love"? "Destroying them"? RiiIIiight. How about the old standby, "I just want to be friends...." Naru Narusegawa But don't you DARE lead them on just because you're afraid that saying anything will hurt your friendship. That's the cruelest thing anyone can do to someone with an attraction.