Anonymous Caller girl girl you're the sunshine me, likes a girl. really like..she gives me a nice feeling..likes the way she smiles. gentle, generous, so real...don't know what i exactely feel. am i in love? with a girl? i'm not against homosexuals, but never really thought about it me being one...help me? Naru Narusegawa Uh... I guess by the way you're talking, you're a girl too? Naru Narusegawa Well, there's really nothing wrong with "liking" liking a girl if you're a girl... but people are full of emotions and it's very easy to confuse them all. Naru Narusegawa Love tends to... show up... in odd and mysterious ways. Sometimes it takes the form of admiration... the desire to be like someone else. Sometimes it shows up as want to just be close to someone and follow in their footsteps. Naru Narusegawa Then again, love also shows up in the more normal ways too. It can show up as a crush... the desire to be with someone just because you like them and you don't know why. Then there's lust which is love based solely on physical attraction... or hormones which make your heart pound when you're just near someone. There is no real die-hard "definition" of what love is or isn't. It's a mix of everything. Toss in friendship and trust, caring and nurturing, honesty and fear, lust and admiration... somewhere in the middle of everything is real love. You can't really know if you truly love a person until you've spent some time to get to know the person. So I guess... spend some time with this person and try to honestly communicate your feelings for them. True love is a two way street. Anything else is just wishful thinking. ^_~