Anonymous Caller Yaoi? I'm a guy... hopefully... And well, I think other guys are cute. They really are! And when they're bishounen, I act like a total fangirl. But I laugh about it. Just becuz I think guys are cute, some are sexy, some are hot... does that mean I'm yaoi or bisexual? ...cuz I also think most of them are insensitive jerks and want nothing to do with them. ...oh, and is it wrong to make guys fall in love with you if you're disguised as a girl? Cuz I think it's fun. Akagi Ritsuko Just to be technical, yaoi refers to a genre of literature and film. Homosexual refers to a personal preference. But I digress.... Are you homosexual or bisexual if you happen to find some very feminine looking males attractive? Not necessarily, and particularly if your attraction is proportional to how feminine they appear. On the other hand, if you find that you are more attracted to boys that are feminine than girls that are similarly attractive, then you may have more evidence with which to reevaluate your sexual orientation. Akagi Ritsuko Is it okay to make guys fall in love with you if you are disguised as a girl? I suppose that really depends. If you are mis-representing yourself in the interest of winning their affections. Yes. You are lying to them, and that is not ethical. If you are externally representing yourself in a feminine manner, but are up front with the person you love that you are, in fact, male, then... I suppose I will have to default to the old advice: "Always should be someone you really love." I am a little troubled at the thought that you might be misrepresenting yourself to others, and find it "fun" to hurt their feelings when you reveal your true sexuality, and hope that is not the case.