Ely2 Girl troubles Dear people of this message board, therse a dance coming up at my school, and i really like my best friend and i wana ask her to the dance, but im afraid if i do shell hate me! please PLEASE help me!!! Mint Eh, tough. Though, I dunno why she'd _HATE_ you if you asked her out. Heck, it'd be weird of she said yes and hated you anyway. So unless you know ahead of time whether or not she hates you, it'd be a bad idea to ask her out to find out. She either already hates you or not.