Ki -_- Okay, I've been called a pervert... that seems offensive to me since I'm not a pervert anymore. I've also been called gay... that seems offensive to me since I dislike men. I may think some of them are cute and maybe even sexy (and has agreed with most women, that yaoi is cute), but I don't like them THAT way. *shudder* I've been called bisexual... that seemed less offensive, but still offensive since I don't like men THAT way. Then I've been called lesbian once... ...it was still offensive to me! I mean, yeah, I may think differently from other guys, but hey, isn't that better then thinking like one?! HAHAHAHAHA!!! (don't kill me) And I can't help but use perverted humor since it is a part of me! And I'm also honest, so that makes me look worse of a pervert. And when I crossdress, so what if I like it? Besides, I do it once a year only, anime conventions, and all. Sooo... I can't be a lesbian, gay, bisexual, and a pervert at the same time, can I?!! ....AND I'M STRAIGHT!!!!! >.< Eikichi Onizuka You use perverted humor but you're not a pervert? You might want to look at that one again. If you can't help but use perverted humor then chances are, you're a pervert. Technically I don't think it's possible to be gay and lesbian at the same time, but on the other hand you need a bit of both to be bisexual. So yeah. Maybe it is possible. And you take offense way too easily. Chill out. Words only have as much power as you give them. Who cares what people call you as long as you're happy being you. Ki >..< Ki I say perverted jokes easily, cuz I used to be a big pervert. I say them nowadays cuz it makes me laugh to see the expressions in people's faces once I say them. XD *thinking* Am I bisexual? No, no I'm not. That's a definite answer. Though, if life were different, I would've been. But that's a different life from a different dimension that I gladly didn't choose. And the reason why I care about the words is... the person I love is the one who said them! (well, ONE of the many who said them) I mean she maybe kidding (well, she's really HALF-kidding... I mean, wouldn't you wonder too?!) but still! Dark Schneider Count your blessings. Your girl may be bi-curious...could explain the defensive humor. If true, hey, best of both worlds. Dark Schneider So your worried that some girl thinks you're a pervert, because you don't think you are. To mess with what that Gump dufus once said: "Perv is, as perv does." Some people think making perverted jokes makes you a pervert. Some think cross-dressing makes you a pervert. You (try to act like you) don't have a problem with either one. It's all in the eye of the Beholder. So the real question is, does she really think you're a perv? Even if she does, does that really bother her, or is she just putting on a good show for her friends, 'cause she doesn't want them thinking she's a perv, too? Would be good to know, wouldn't it? And if she is bothered? What's it to you? You rather drop your pervy habits, or her? Something's gotta give. Or, do you think you could explain just exactly why it is you like acting in a way she thinks is pervy, in a way she'd understand? Ball's in your court, boyo, ...Even if it is under a skirt.