Anonymous Caller Drugs My best friend is very addiction oriented. She smokes cigarettes, drinks and smokes dope. I have tried to help her in the past, but every time I attempt to help she pushes me away. What can I do? Eikichi Onizuka Is your friend trying to quit, or is that just what you want her to do? IF she is trying to quit, then if she wants your help I'm sure she'll ask for it and the best thing you can do is wait. Eikichi Onizuka On the other hand if she isn't trying to quit I'm not surprised she pushes you away. No-one likes being told what to do by someone else, and fankly it's not your business if she drinks or smokes. If it bothers you that she does it when your around, then ask her to stop. Otherwise I think you'd do well to drop the issue. You're going to find yourself down a friend if you don't.